sex is never just sex.

Embracing what turns you on—and understanding what gets in the way—begins with being open to profoundly understanding your complexities and seeming contradictions. It can be helpful to explore your early life so you can make sense of your sexual landscape.

I’m BDSM/kink-, polyamory/ENM- and gender-affirming.

common concerns i see in my practice

Shame and guilt about sex or sexual fantasies, kinks and interests

Desire discrepancy in couples and low desire

Difficulty communicating about sex

Sexual trauma

Compulsive sexual behaviors and infidelity

Sex anxiety

Gender dysphoria impacting sexual expression

Gender transition affecting sexual relationships

Pelvic pain

Erection challenges

Delayed ejaculation

Aging and changing bodies